All you want to do is apologies to him and show him how much you still love him. That is where you are making a huge mistake. When we apologize we are taking all the blame ourselves and saying we are at fault.
There is a better way and I would like to share it with you today. If you make this one change you can increase your chance of getting back together 60%.
Instead of saying your Does it feel like everything you try to say to your ex-boyfriend only makes him more distant. All you sorry and admitting guilt consider and try a different purpose of an apology. I like to call it taking responsibility for a rift in the relationship. Say something like this “ you must be angry and frustrated with me because I ( insert what you did to make him upset)”. This will let him know you actually care about his feelings. Instead of getting into an argument you will more than likely be able to sit down and talk.
That is what we are after here. If you only say you are sorry it leaves very little room for actual communication. Communication is the key to any good relationship. But you need a way to get the communication flowing. I truly believe this one step will get you guys talking.
This is not going to be easy. We are trained to say I’m sorry. You will have to undo your past programming on the purpose of an apology. Once you have done that then you can begin to accept the “new” purpose of taking responsibility for the rift in the relationship.
Once you do that you will not have to ask how to get your ex-boyfriend back. He will be your boyfriend again. But first lets wipe the slate clean and start over.
The most important thing to remember is not to accept blame but instead take responsibility for the rift in the relationship. There is a big difference and it is the difference between getting back together or not.
The key is to get the communication lines flowing. This will help him remember why you guys fell in love in the first place. It won’t be long and you guys will laugh at the small disagreements you had. But know is the time to take action on this and get your ex-boyfriend back.
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